Negotiation Techniques

The Verbal Offer

When it comes to negotiation techniques, this is #1 in my book.

NEVER NEVER NEVER negotiate an offer to purchase verbally. You WILL lose.

Sorry for shouting but.... This site is called, sell my house fsbo. It is not called, let's make a real estate agent happy!

Here are the Facts

You want to negotiate the highest price with the best terms for you.

The buyer wants to negotiate the lowest price with the best terms for them.

We will cover just one of the many negotiation techniques on this page.

Techniques for Nerves of Steel

Many times a purchaser will use techniques to start testing the water. For example, you have a certified appraisal for $275,000.00.

The purchaser has indicated to you that they are really interested. Then they do the old low ball test offer.

Mr. and Mrs. Seller, my wife and I might be interested in putting a bid on your property but we don't want to pay what you're asking.

Would you consider selling for $250,000.00?

DON'T PANIC! If you get a low ball verbal proposition like this, your response should ALWAYS be the same.

The negotiation techniques I'm about to tell you are worth all the time it may take you to study this entire site.

Your Response to a Low Ball Verbal Bid

Mr. and Mrs. Buyer, we really appreciate your offer. If you write everything up on paper, we'll be more than happy to take a serious look at it.

Of course you can put the words in your own style, but the message should always be the same.

If you took only one thing from this web-site, these negotiation techniques are what I would probably pick as the most important lesson.

What normally will happen in most cases when sellers are not familiar with how to use negotiation techniques, is they will start a verbal back and forth.

You will lose either the whole thing, or you will take less than what you would have received if you used the above answer.

The absolute worst thing to do is say no, we're not interested unless you want to pay full price.

Another Short Bedtime Story

This occurred just a few days before I wrote this page. We have a niece back in Nova Scotia who has her house listed with a real estate agent.

I know. BOO! BOO! Anyway her real estate agent called her the other day with an purchase bid.

I don't know all the details, but it was a low and the real estate agent gave her the price on the phone! Either this agent is new, incompetent or both.

My niece told her to not even bother bringing the paper over. The real estate agent obliged. What a disservice!

If and when the property sells, while this real estate agent has the house listed, they will actually get paid for their service. What an injustice!

OK, enough ranting. Back to business.

Perhaps I should send this real estate agent some of my negotiation techniques that you are learning here. :-)

Why Do You Use the Written Offer?

Here is the why. Once you understand why you do something, it starts to make sense. :)

I had more success and fun with negotiation techniques while I was in real estate, than probably any other thing I did.

When you tell the buyer you will take a serious look at their written offer, they start to mentally take ownership.

When the buyer actually takes the time and effort to put everything on paper, that mental ownership becomes more deeply ingrained.

Ownership?

The mind is a powerful thing, but you can trick it. Not maliciously. Just good business sense.

Once you didn't turn down the buyer's low ball verbal proposition, the buyers start visualizing living in your house.

They probably don't believe they will be able to purchase your house at such a low price. The funny thing is though, they are now in the “we're moving to their house” mind set.

Once someone takes possession of something in their mind, it is much more likely that reality will follow.

What will Happen, if the Negotiation is Verbal?

Lets take this same situation where the buyer throws out the old low ball and, you decide to do the negotiation verbally.

One of three things will probably happen.

You go back and forth giving and taking until you reach a price between $250,000.00 and $275,000.00. (you lose)

You get into an actual argument until you don't even like each other, and the buyer walks away. (you both lose)

You give the buyer a verbal counter-offer which they say no to and it's all over (you both lose)

This is why you use the "put it on paper" negotiation technique.

Once Again

Mr. and Mrs. Buyer, we really appreciate your offer. If you write everything up on paper, we'll be more than happy to take a serious look at it.

I'd like to add a note here concerning buyers and sellers sometimes not liking each other. This actually happens probably more times than people realize.

If you are doing your negotiation verbally and you are quite far apart on the terms of the agreement, you are in real danger of things becoming personal.

The negotiation become more heated until one or the other either says, or thinks.

“I wouldn't buy your house if it was the last habitat on earth Mr. And Mrs. Seller!”.

or the seller?

“I'd burn this house down before I'd sell this house to you Mr. And Mrs. Buyer!”

When you read this it sounds rather silly doesn't it? It is silly..... BUT it happens.

Mr. and Mrs. Buyer, we appreciate your offer. If you write everything up on paper, we'll be more than happy to take a serious look at it.

That's All You Have to Remember

Do you see how easy that is. When it comes to this negotiation technique, you only have to remember one response if someone gives you a verbal offer.

You don't need to know a bunch of tricky complicated closes and come-backs. Just one, and only one response, and let them go home and write it up.

Even better, you can let them write up the offer right there in the kitchen.

For more negotiation techniques, check out the links below.

For More Information about Real Estate Negotiations

The Don't Blink Rule

The Give and Take Negotiation Technique

The Final Negotiation Steps

Negotiation Techniques - Main Page

Home Page

Back to Top of Page

Disclaimer Privacy Policy Contact Me